Rejection subtracts that which is less than what you truly deserve or desire.

 

Your offer on the house was rejected.     There’s a better home waiting.

Your job interview didn’t pan out.      There’s a better opportunity coming.

Someone walked out on you.     They were standing in your way to success and  true love.

 

Rejection is painful, numbs the mind and scatters the emotions.  The response system jumps into gear with all sorts of pliable reasonings.  Ignore them as you take the time to accept the loss, understand the removal, assimilate all components and its outcome.

I can personally attest to rejection with uppercase ‘R’.   Hurt?   Devastated, immobilized and fearfiul.  Only progressing down the road and turning onto hindsight lane does any of it become clear.

 

Had I NOT been rejected, you most likely wouldn’t even be reading this post.  Or  be witness to some of the creative endeavors that were seeds within my heart that then had fertile soil in which to freely grow.

You have to find YOU in the middle of the rejection.  It can be a stumbling stone or a dig-deeper timeframe to see what’s really there.  Don’t ignore the anger, hurt, sadness, pain or sickening feeling of loss.  Those feelings need their  grieving platform in your life and the only way past it is to step on that platform and visit each one.  You hold the microphone and as you are choose you can dismiss them one by one from the stage of your heart.

They will leave by the backstairs as they are  dismissed.